We all want to spend quality time with our baby, but do we know how to do it?
Spending quality time with your baby is one of the most rewarding experiences of parenthood. These moments create strong bonds, nurture emotional well-being, and provide a sense of security for your little one.
But in today’s busy world, many parents struggle to balance work, household responsibilities, and personal time while ensuring they give their babies the attention they need. This blog will give you valuable insight into why you should spend quality time with your baby and also some tools to make your life easier. Let's dive in...
1. Be Present and Engaged
I remember it like it was yesterday—when my son, Ethan, asked me, "Mummy, where are you?" while I was sitting right next to him, playing with him. I smiled and said, "I’m here sweetheart, playing with you." But he looked into my eyes again and repeated, "Mummy, where are you?"
At that moment, I realised he could sense my thoughts because, in reality, my mind was elsewhere—thinking about what I needed to do for my business the next day. Children can feel everything, especially when we’re so preoccupied that we’re not even aware of our own distractions.
Being present isn’t as easy as it seems. It takes practice...
One of the best gifts you can give your baby is your full attention. This means putting away distractions like your phone, television, or work emails and truly focusing on your baby. Engaging with them through eye contact, talking, and smiling strengthens your bond and reassures them that they are loved and valued.
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Spend at least 15 minutes of uninterrupted time with your baby each morning and before bedtime.
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Talk to them about your day, describe objects around them, or simply make playful sounds to get a reaction.
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Use Bebekish’s soft Muslin Blankets as a comfortable play mat during tummy time to encourage sensory exploration.
2. Establish a Bedtime Routine
Bedtime routines are excellent for giving all of your attention to your baby and hence it helps babies feel secure and develop healthy sleep patterns. Creating a peaceful and consistent bedtime ritual strengthens your bond and helps your baby relax before sleep.
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Give your baby a warm bath, followed by a gentle massage using a soft Bebekish Bamboo Muslin Towels
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Make sure your baby is dressed in a soft, hypoallergenic natural Sleepsuit and read a bedtime story while cuddling with your baby.
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Sing a lullaby or play soothing music to create a calm sleep environment.
3. Engage in Skin-to-Skin Contact
Skin-to-skin contact is a powerful way to bond with your baby, helping regulate their temperature, heartbeat, and breathing while making them feel secure.
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Hold your baby close against your chest for at least 10–15 minutes a day.
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Use Bebekish’s ultra-soft bamboo swaddle to wrap your baby comfortably during these bonding moments.
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After bath time, wrap your baby in a Bebekish hooded towel to keep them warm and cosy while cuddling.
4. Explore the Outdoors Together
Fresh air and a change of scenery can be refreshing for both you and your baby. Being outside provides sensory stimulation and an opportunity to introduce your baby to nature.
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Take a walk in the park while carrying your baby in a sling or stroller.
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Let your baby feel the texture of grass, leaves, and flowers with their hands.
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Use a Bebekish muslin blanket as a stroller cover to protect your baby from the sun while ensuring breathability.
5. Engage in Sensory Play
Babies learn about the world through their senses. Engaging them in sensory play supports brain development and enhances cognitive skills.
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Use Bebekish’s organic handmade soft toys to improve your baby's hand and eyes coordination
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Let your baby touch different textures, such as smooth bamboo fabric, soft plush toys, and wooden blocks.
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Sing songs and play with rattles to stimulate their auditory senses.
6. Encourage Gentle Movements and Exercise
Physical activity is crucial for your baby’s motor development. Gentle movements, tummy time, and stretching help strengthen their muscles and improve coordination.
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Lay your baby on a Bebekish muslin for tummy time to strengthen their neck and back muscles.
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Hold their hands and gently guide them through stretching and kicking movements.
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Dance with your baby to soft music while holding them securely.
7. Sing, Talk, and Read Together
Babies respond to the sound of their parents’ voices. Talking, singing, and reading to them supports language development and builds a strong emotional connection.
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Read picture books with colourful images while pointing out objects.
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Sing nursery rhymes and lullabies, using gentle hand movements to engage them.
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Talk to your baby throughout the day, narrating your actions (e.g., "Now we’re putting on your soft Bebekish onesie!").
The key to spending quality time with your baby is to be present and intentional in your interactions. Whether it’s through cuddling, reading, singing, or exploring the outdoors, these moments will create lasting memories and strengthen your bond.
Bebekish is here to support your journey with soft, sustainable, and high-quality products designed for comfort and care.
Cherish every moment, you’re building a foundation of love and security that will last a lifetime. 💕