Baby

Swaddling is liked by parents during centuries. It makes a baby feel like he is back inside the womb again and it helps many babies sleep better. 

I was one of these mums that was not agreed to swaddling when I had my first baby son. He was a colic baby and he was not sleeping much at night. I was feeling so tired during the day being up all night with him. My mum was keep telling me that I should swaddle him but I did not listen to her. In the end, we had to have a sleep training from a professional when he was 7 months old. 

Four years later, when I had my second child, I swaddled her from the day 1. As soon as I fed her, I used to swaddle her and she slept so well all night, every night.

I think it is important to try to swaddle your baby at least a few times. If they do not like it, then you stop swaddling, but if they really like it, it is important for mums to have a good night sleep while their baby is asleep soundly. 

You should be aware of a few things when swaddling; 

1 - Material: You should make sure that the swaddle is made from breathable and lightweight material such as cotton or bamboo. 

2 - Size: You need to make sure that the swaddle is big enough to swaddle your baby. 

3 - Not too tight: You need to make sure that you swaddle your baby from the top but they still have room to move for their legs. 

4 - Allergic babies: Some babies can be allergic to dust when they are born. You may not realise this and your baby can wake up during the night because they cannot breath properly due to the dust. The best way of knowing this, if you have a dust allergy, there is 85% chance that your baby will also have a dust allergy. Because most allergies are genetics. 

5 - When you swaddle your baby, make sure that you always put her on her back, not on her side or bellies. 

6 - Make sure that when you swaddle your baby, fabric does not come too loose, covering your baby's face. 

7 - Always check your baby regularly while she is asleep. 

That's why we suggest that you use choose bamboo muslin swaddles over a conventional cotton swaddles to make your baby feeling comfortable. 

As we have been dealing with allergies for my kids for years, I have listed some of the benefits of using bamboo muslin swaddles. 

We love Bebekish Bamboo Muslin Swaddles because they are; 

- free from any chemicals 

- lightweight, breathable and safe 

- anti allergic and anti bacterial 

- natural and sustainable 

- the softest fabric like a silk. 

- does not irritate your baby's sensitive skin. 

We are proudly announced that we have recently win 2022 Gold Award from Bizzie Baby. 

Ps: Please note that this information has not been given by a doctor or a medical expert. This is just an experienced mum's opinion. Please always check this information with your doctor. 

Babies generally have more reddish skin than older children and adult's skin. This is why it is difficult for parents to realise that their children have sensitive skin. 

Has your baby's skin sensitive?

On the other hand some babies develop skin rashes after contacting with various substances. If your baby has any of the followings: 

- a skin reaction after a lotion 

- a skin reaction after a bath 

- a skin rashes after wearing clothes, possibly reaction to detergent or dyes

If you have one or more than one of the above situation, you should consult to your doctor. 

What to do if your baby has a sensitive skin 

It is important to find out what substances your baby is sensitive to. It could be certain type of materials due to the high chemical process or dyes or fragrances. If you are not sure what substances are affecting your baby's skin, follow the points below: 

- avoid clothes that may have chemicals

- avoid detergents, fragrances or dyes

- use mild natural bath soaps for bathing 

- use organic or natural bamboo clothing 

If your baby is in discomfort, consult your doctor immediately. 

How baby's skin changes over time 

When your baby is born, their skin colour becomes reddish purple colour. As they start breathing on their own, their skin colour becomes more red colour then will fade within the first day after the birth. 

They may have blue hands and feet which is normal, however, if your baby has blue colour on the face, consult your doctor immediately. 

In the first few days, your baby may have acne. This is normal and will fade away after few days. 

Babies often have tiny blocked pores known as millia. They go away as your baby grows. 

Your baby's skin is also sensitive to heat rashes. As your baby ages, you will be able to see when your baby's skin is becoming sensitive or not. 

If your baby develop eczema, you may first see a sign on their face and cheeks. As your baby gets older, eczema is likely to form around the elbow or hand. 

When to see a doctor? 

You should talk to your doctor if you baby is in discomfort. You should also talk to your doctor if the following conditions occur: 

- rash appears to be infected

- your baby has a temperature in addition to rashes 

- treatment does not help to get rashes better

- a rash or dry skin does not appear and if it gets worse in the next few days 

You should also talk to your doctor before using any medications. 

Most babies will develop rashes, skin irritations and eczema. It is important to recognise these conditions before it gets worse. 

For this reason as a parent, we should always be aware of this conditions. Using chemical free organic cotton clothing or natural bamboo accessories can help your baby's skin. 

Conventional cotton 

When your baby is born it is normal that he/she wants to be held in your arms. This is not a habit but it is a need. Think about this from your baby's point of view. After being inside of you for nine months in a  cosy and warm environment and being squashed in your tummy, it is normal that your baby will want to be held to feel secure. It is really important that your baby feels that he/she is in a secure place. All babies are different but many babies are agitated when they are put down in their crib while they are awake and make fuss about it. 

That does not mean that your baby will want to be held every time he/she goes to sleep. It means that they can gradually get used to sleep on their own. You can help your baby learn how to soothe himself. Your baby may wake up hungry from his sleep or something catches his attention. 

When your baby is newborn, it is important to swaddle your baby so that he/she does not wake him/herself from the sleep. You should always check on your baby regularly when swaddling. Always use safety and breathable items to use it. 

Bebekish offers perfect swaddling muslin cloth for your baby. 100% bamboo muslin swaddles are breathable, lightweight, safe, anti allergic and anti bacterial for your little one. 

When your baby gets older, you can make your baby's crib more interesting for him by changing his mobile time to time or give him a safe comforter so that your baby can spend some time with it to soothe himself. 

Keep in mind that these times are transitional measures. Gradually within the six months your baby will learn how to sleep on his own and will require your less help over time. 

What is Bonding?

 Bonding and attachment happen when you consistently respond to newborns with love, warmth and care. Newborns use body language to show when they want to connect with you. Good ways to bond with new borns include smiling, eye contact, singing, reading and cuddling.

Why is bonding with a baby important?            

When you response to your baby’s needs, your baby will feel secure and safe. They develop healthier relationship with other people around them. You do not have to feel the bond when you see your baby. It can take some time. 

As long as you take care of your baby’s needs such as cuddling, smiling, showing your affection and feeding, she will not suffer if you do not feel the bond at first sight. 

Some dads feel bonded straight away when they hold their baby, for some dads it may take some time. This is perfectly normal. Everyone is different. You may help your partner recover from the birth so take it easy and give some time yourself to bond with your baby. 

In the past researches were suggesting to spend a lot of time with your newborn during the first few days to establish a bond right away. However, bonding takes time.

Parents who are separated from their baby soon after delivery for medical reasons or who adopt their kids later in childhood also develop close, loving relationships.

The most important part of it, you should not feel guilty if you did not bond with your baby immediately. Give some time to yourself and your newborn baby.

What are the best ways to bond?

• Have skin-skin cuddling time. 
• Talk and sing to him regularly, with your eyes looking into his eyes and your face up close.
• Play with him every day. Newborns enjoy playtime as much as older babies. 
• Carry your baby in a sling or front carrier on walks. 
• Hold him close and read to your baby.
• Communicate with your baby by mirroring his movements or echo his coos and other vocalisations. These are the first step of communicate with your little one. 
• It sounds strange but talk to your baby throughout the day. It may be difficult at the beginning because it sounds like you are talking to yourself. But it will start to feel more natural if you keep it up.

Please note that these are the general advice for parents from parents. For professional advice please consult your doctor.

If you notice that your baby has a white coating on his tongue, it may be just the milk residue. You can wipe it off easily. Make sure that you use a clean damp face cloth or gentle finger toothbrush after feeding. 

Milk residue is very common for newborns. Because babies are not able to produce enough saliva to clean their tongue so milk residue stays there. it should go away for a few days. 

However, if you see any signs of the followings, call your baby's provider or a doctor: 

- White or yellow patches on baby's inside of the cheeks, lips, gums or throat 

- If your baby is crying after breastfeeding or sucking on a pacifier or bottle

If your bab's provider diagnoses thrush, she may prescribe an oral anti fungal medication (often nystatin). It may take two weeks to clear up the infection. 

Can I prevent my baby getting thrush? 

Not always. Some babies are more prone to yeast infections. There are a few things that you can consider of doing to lower the chance of getting thrush: 

- Don't give any antibodies unless it is absolutely necessary.

- Clean the bottle, pacifier and your nipple every time you feed your baby. 

- Let your nipples air dry between feedings. 

- Wash your hands before feeding your baby, especially after feeding and diaper changes. 

Baby Lead Weaning basically means self feeding, skipping spoon, use fingers and it is absolutely loved by babies. This is the most enjoyable moment for them.

What is the benefits of baby-led weaning?

- Supports the development of babies eye-hand coordination, chewing skills and healthy eating habits. It also offers babies an opportunity to explore the taste, texture and aroma of a variety of foods.

- Babies who self-fed eat less food than they need since they are feeding independently

- Baby-led weaning have a lasting effect on a child's food preferences. They eat healthier and you will not need to buy jar food for your baby.

Most of the time mums are concerned about mess but BLW is an important milestone for your baby to go through.

Here is some tips for baby weaning success:

- Texture is the key. The food that you give your baby should be soft and easy to smash with gentle finger pressure. You should steam fruit and vegetables when beginning baby-led weaning

- Always let your baby eat his/her food

Make sure that you are with your baby at all times but do not sit next to her/him and watch him constantly. Instead you can finish your cooking in the kitchen and keep an eye on your baby at the same time.

- If you are having dinner together do not make fuss about when they are making mess.

- Always give her/him soft food or half cooked food. Like banana, avocado, steamed vegs, poached salmon, pasta, omlets cut into pieces, strips of chicken

- Let your baby use safe utensils.

- Make sure your baby gets enough nutrients. Many babies struggle eat all of the food at first. You may give your baby finger foods with purees until she gets the hang of self feeding.

- Once your baby has tried and tolerated several single-ingredient foods, you can begin offering mixed dishes.

What if my baby chokes? 

Gagging is very common in early days of eating. It is a normal and reflexive safety mechanism that might cause watery eyes and coughing or sputtering. But parents can understand that gagging is a safety reflex and it is normal. Babies will learn with your reaction. If you get scared then baby will get scared. So make sure that you are calm when baby is eating his food.

Choking on the other hand happens when the food gets stuck in the throat or windpipe, blocking airflow. If a baby is choking, she will not make sound. To avoid this situation, move away grapes, nuts, raisins or raw vegetables until baby is comfortable with chewing easily.

Safety rules

- Always stay with your baby while he is eating

- Make sure your baby is sitting up when eating

- Serve foods that aren't hard

- Take an infant first aid class so you'll be prepared

- Do not rush to help your baby when she gags. Babies can feel parent's panic and can develop negative associations with eating. Instead stay calm and give her time to work it out.